If you ever find yourself at a fancy restaurant with a group of people. Remember BMW. From left to right, you should have your Bread plate, your Main (or plate for your main course), and then Water (or drinks).
Use the cuterlry from the outside in, use one set per dish (ignoring the bread), and remember to hold the utensil in your hands based on the position it was placed on the table.
Put your napkin on your lap, folded in half with the crease facing yourself. Then use it, to dab your lips before you drink to avoid any embarrassing sauce on your cup.